Ummmm...what?

While out with friends last night, I came to a realization. As a soon-to-be divorced woman, at some point I will probably start dating again. Ummmmm...what? DATING? Really? Me? Really? Dating? really? I find this concept a bit...intimidating. It's been a long time. I'm not sure I know how to do this! Flirting, meeting new men, what do I wear, what do I say. I've always been shy and a bit awkward. I get the whole "be yourself" blah blah blah yadda yadda yadda part. I liked dating. Sort of. But it's totally different now! I'm a mom. I'm divorced. I have way more to think of than just myself. OH. MY. GOD. Dating. Wow. I forgot about this part of being single. Help!